by R. Clayton Brough, BFO Vice-President and Genealogist (Updated on
3 October 2011)
For more than three decades
I've been involved in genealogy and family history, and for many years
I've served as an officer of the
Brough Family Organization (BFO)--one of the largest and oldest
ancestral family organizations in the world. During this time, my wife
and sweetheart, Ethel, has constantly helped and sustained me in my
genealogical endeavors, and my four children have always encouraged
and supported me in my family history activities.
As a BFO officer, I've often been asked
by family members and friends why I spend so much of my free-time--as
an unpaid volunteer--doing genealogy research and family history work
for family members and potential relatives around the world. Here is
my answer:
First, I am a practicing Christian
and a member of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-day Saints (LDS). As such, I'm not really worried
about what others think of me, since I'm mainly concerned about what
the Lord
Jesus Christ thinks of me. If my words and works are considerate
of others and inspired by the Holy
Ghost and approved by the Lord, then I'm headed in the right direction--both
in this life and into the next. As a Christian and a member of the LDS
Church, I have a strong testimony of the divinity of God
our Eternal Father in Heaven, his son the Lord Jesus Christ, and
in the Holy Ghost, and I also believe in the eternal
nature of the family and the significance of genealogy
and family history work, and feel it is very important that LDS
members facilitate and perform sacred temple
ordinances for those who never had the chance in this life to enjoy
the full blessings of the gospel
of Jesus Christ. Also, I strongly believe that people of all religious
faiths and walks of life can enjoy the friendship and love that comes
through learning about their ancestors and family
heritage.
Second, I am a professional teacher and
atmospheric scientist, and I feel very strongly that many of today's
youth--with so many available distractions and irreverent voices clamoring
for their attention--have lost a sense of "connectedness"
towards their extended families,
and that many young
people--along with too many adults--know little about their ancestors
who sacrificed and toiled to make their modern lives possible and enjoyable.
Simply put, I feel that as people gain a better understanding of the
lives and trials of their ancestors they more fully appreciate who they
are and what they have, become less critical and more forgiving
of others,
and strive to conduct themselves in a more honorable manner--because
they soon realize that "no man is an island" and that "how
I live today may impact my posterity for generations to come".
In fact, I often use the following quote (author unknown) when talking
to people about the relevance of knowing and understanding one's family
history:
How Will You Be Remembered?
If you could see your ancestors
All standing in a row,
There might be some of them
You wouldn't want to know.
But here's another question
Which requires another view,
When your posterity looks backwards
Will they be proud of you?
Needless to say, it is my
hope that everyone will learn of their family
heritage, and so live their lives that their families and posterity
will be "proud" of them. (For more information about how and
why young people should get involved in family history work visit this
website).
In closing, I testify to you that I know
that God our Eternal Father lives, that Jesus is the Christ and our
Savior, that the Holy Ghost bears witness of the Father and of the Son,
and that all mankind will someday be resurrected
and stand
before God to be judged "according to their works" (Revelations,
20:13). I pray that when we--as family members and friends--pass from
mortality to immortality,
that the Lord will also be able to say of us, "Well done, thou
good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things,
I will make thee ruler over many things: enter
thou into the joy of thy lord." (Matthew 25:21).